Meet Your Change Maven

Transforming Pain into Purpose, Purpose into Power

From Pain to Purpose

I know what it's like to carry pain that feels too heavy to bear. Born with a birth palsy, bullied as a child, growing up in a gang-infested community with a mother who was often sick and unavailable - I learned early that life could be brutal. I became the misfit bookworm who let others use me for entertainment just to belong. Music became my sanctuary, the one place I felt worthy of love.

But even in that sacred space, betrayal found me. After five years of marriage to a fellow musician, four beautiful children, and countless nights ministering through song, I discovered my husband was living a double life. The devastation was consuming. If not for my children, I might not have survived.

That's when I discovered something powerful: our deepest pain often becomes the doorway to our greatest purpose.

In my darkest hour, I found myself drawn to a college whose philosophy was "Purpose-Centered." While earning my Human Services degree, I studied Change Management and created a life change project that didn't just help me survive - it helped me thrive. That process became the foundation for everything I do today.

The Professional Behind the Purpose

Hi! I’m Sheila Frazer’s and I’m The Change Maven!  I understand my purpose as a Change Agent, and am dedicated to helping others transform their pain into power. My personal journey has equipped me with both lived experience and professional expertise to guide you through your own transformation.

Personal Roles

• Single mother of four beautiful children

• Pastor and spiritual guide

• Aspiring author sharing stories of transformation

• Retreat host creating sacred spaces for healing

• Conference speaker inspiring audiences nationwide

Professional Expertise

• Seasoned Human Service Professional with over 20 years of experience working with youth and family systems

• Project Manager with over 15 years of administrative experience in the nonprofit sector

• Change Management specialist

• Purpose-centered transformation coach

I learned that every pain story has lessons to teach you. Once you learn the lessons, there is always a new passion that is birthed. Our responsibility is to use that passion to fuel a purpose and release that as our gift to the world. Are you ready to transform your pain into your greatest power?  Discover My Signature Transformation Journey.